So I haven’t been applying the rules for very long (or very well, I’m gonna be upfront about that), but I HAVE been trying apply them… and in the last two weeks or so, I have been having a fair amount of trouble with Rule 5 which states: No chatting/texting all day Time gate –Continue reading “Rule 5: an examination”
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New Rule!
Full disclosure: I am in an open relationship. I’m very open and honest about this with anyone I meet, obviously, because that’s the whole point of an open relationship. An upside of disclosing this right upfront is that well, obviously honesty is good. Everyone understands the expectations, and nothing is hidden or secretive. A downsideContinue reading “New Rule!”
Guys To Avoid – The Guy Who Forgets You Are An Actual Person
I had taken a little bit of a break from chatting with guys online. I needed to just take a moment to regroup, and get my strength back up to try this again. Also, we were working out the rules and I wanted to start fresh with those firmly in place. Anyway, yesterday I startedContinue reading “Guys To Avoid – The Guy Who Forgets You Are An Actual Person”
Rule 8 – an update.
The post in which I am both right and horribly wrong. So yay me, I tested the rules and found that you could “unring the bell”, right? And there was much rejoicing. Wrong. And yet right. Yes, I got an interaction with a man back on track and was both shocked and pleased at howContinue reading “Rule 8 – an update.”
Rules Update!
After a night out with friends where there was drinking, I realized something that was missing from the rules, specifically regarding texting: Absolutely no texting when you are drunk. This probably should go without saying, but since the rules should cover all cases, it does need to be added. Obviously when you’ve had a fewContinue reading “Rules Update!”
Fuck Yes or No
Okay, so first you need to take 9 minutes to read this famous article, Fuck Yes or No, written by Mark Manson. The Grey Area There’s a grey area in dating, where you’re just not sure what is going on. Does he like me? Should I do this, or that, to make him like meContinue reading “Fuck Yes or No”
Lab Experiment – Can You Unring The Bell?
In the spirit of not wanting to blindly assert something without having testing it, I am going to attempt to unring a bell. By that, I am referring to the rule that says once you have fucked up on not following the rules you need to bail because it is now ruined. Background: I matchedContinue reading “Lab Experiment – Can You Unring The Bell?”
THE RULES
After much discussion, here are the rules we’ve come up with! Note that at this point, we’ve yet to try them out so this is all theoretical, but this is our starting point. Also important to note that we are two straight women, dating men, so any assumptions made or strategies employed are based onContinue reading “THE RULES”
Welcome to Casual Sex Rules For Women
Well, first off, we’re not experts by any means. This is more of an experiment. A sex experiment. A SEXPERIMENT. We’re just two women, trying to have casual sex, and not get too screwed over/screwed in the right way in the process. We’ve got some… experience though. So taking what we’ve already learned along theContinue reading “Welcome to Casual Sex Rules For Women”